Why is it that so many have a difficult time finding Mr. or Mrs. "Right"? Read this!:
Get Rid of the Baggage, Not the Marriage
Many couples bring a lot of excess baggage from their past into their marriage. The typical forms of baggage are hurt, anger, SELF-CENTEREDNESS (99% of all marriage problems get back to this.), a lack of understanding of what true love is, a wrong attitude toward sex, and a low self-image. Because of excess baggage, many marriages are doomed from the start. They are actually time bombs ready to go off! As a matter of fact, add a tight budget, a few kids, and an tempermental in-law into the picture, and you've got quite an explosion on your hands.
When couples start to feel the effects of the heavy baggage that is weighing them down, they often feel that the answer is to throw the marriage out, however, the real answer is to THROW THE BAGGAGE OUT. As a matter of fact, one of the problems with not dealing with the baggage is that people tend to just TAKE THE EXCESS BAGGAGE on to the next relationship. (Because of this reason, there are many people on their 2nd and 3rd marriage that still think they have not found the "right" person! If the truth be known, if they would have initially dealt with the excess baggage in their life, they may still be on their first marriage.)
You can start to deal with this baggage through counseling (We offer Live Phone Counseling Help - Call 1-888-354-2346 - Anytime) and good books (like How to Stop a Divorce and Angry Without a Cause by Dr. Raymond Force).
Remember, be very careful to work on yourself first. Certainly, your spouse needs to change, however, up to this point, your spouse's vision of seeing his/her own faults has probably been BLURRED by your own mistakes! It is so important to take your own faults out of the picture so he/she can clearly see theirs. Of course, this doesn't sound fair, but that is just they way we tend to work.
Most couples having problems tend to do 1 of 3 things: 1. They throw in the marriage towel (This is emotionally, mentally, physically, and financially expensive.) 2. They just put up with each other (That's no fun) 3. They both strive to pick up the pieces and move ahead in their relationship with one another. For you, which one will it be? Remember, we're here to help. Don't try this alone. We have over 8 years of experience in helping couples just like you. We offer Straightforward, Marital Counseling with a Common Sense approach and Proven Results.
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